Translation of gray rape into Hebrew noun

There's a gray area of rape.

I stood there trying to understand the gray-haired woman who sought to compare rapes committed by her brother and the film protagonists' experiences.

If I have to listen to one more gray-faced man with a two-dollar haircut explain to me what rape is, I'm gonna lose my mind.

I think maybe there's like a whole rainbow of rape, and, um, it ranges from, like, the scene you just described to, like, the highly controversial gray area that we find ourselves firmly in.